How we learn to love and to whom to love.

For a short period of time I experienced how does it feels to be genuinely interested in knowing someone, knowing each and every thing, what intrigues their mind, what movies they have watched, what books they have read, what songs they listen to, what journals they write, what kind of people they like, what are their career aspects, what is it like to be in their family and home, how their room or personal space looks like, what are the places they wanna go, what pet they wanna have, what kind of workout and diet they would prefer, what kind of car they would drive, what would they do in spare time or at mid of night, when they cried like hell, when they laughed out loud, what's their favourite childhood memory, who their best friends are, what's their worst and best school memory,  what kind of people they have met and experienced  and what lessons they learn from their life.

Probably in everyone's life that time comes and its the time when you yourself feel happy that you are actually getting to know a person inside out.
You feel overwhelmed that you also occupy the tendency to understand a person.
That's the time when you also hold the tendency to get emotionally attached with that person.
once they tell how they feel about a particular incident, you either get inspired or get a instinct of sympathy towards them which is normal human behavior.
Talking to that person seems like reading a book because with every new thing they tell you, you are actually learning something new about them and when you learn something you get happy so ultimately that persons becomes a source of happiness for you.
one of the most important thing we all should know and learn about that time is by being genuinely interested in someone we are not falling in love with them, yes, while being genuinely interested in a person we are falling in love with them instead we are knowing the right way to fall in love.

yes, To be genuinely interested in someone is the right way to fall in love with them.

But we normally misunderstand it, and we think we are in love with the person who has become source of happiness for us.
No its not love, Love is the way you are.
Love is your purity and curiosity to know and learn that person, calling that particular person as your love is wrong.

If your source of happiness, that person somehow becomes the reason for your grief, pain, tears and sorrows then definitely you are practising the right way of love on a wrong person.

Now when you have learned the right way to fall in love, you should know the right person to fall in love with.

so the person to whom you should fall in love with is the person who'll be genuinely interested in you.
yes, once you find someone who is genuinely interested in you, just know that right time has come to take a right decision by choosing the right person and loving him/her in the right way to love (that you might have learned from someone else.)
Its the law of universe that right things done at right time are always successful and that's where you live a successful love life, its the only secret to intimacy, and nothing else.

#Roh_AN